What you say to friends who just came from a break-up.

First - that they are better of without those exes who thinks that the world would die without them. Oh please, it's not like it's the end of the world or something. Yes, there are good memories but, also think of the memories when he would rather hang out with his friends than hang out with you -- Don't be biased for his sake. C'me on be realistic, he dumped you, get that straight fact into that thick head of yours.

Second - He's full of shit, anyways. What kind of a man breaks up using SMS. Yes, sending sms is the new trend for communicating but, shit it is. It just says how much of a coward he is. Ask yourself, buddy. Did he really ever treasure your relationship or is it pure games on his part. Whatever it is -- Get this: He's not worth crying over.

Third - Cheer up, girl! You can now freely look at other guys without feeling a hint of guilt inside you. Think of it this way: Who knows how many times he checked out the girl next to him. You deserve a better man, dear. Don't go brawling over a guy who thinks of you as a girl who's always game and ready for major PDAs. Think if did he ever loved you or did he just stick beside you for his needs and of course -- his so-called macho male ego. Whatever, he's still full of shit. Girls out there shouldn't take him seriously.

Fourth - Whatever. It's not like he's the last guy on earth. There's your best friend from the senior who [in my opinion] has an interest in you. There's also the guys from that all boy school, who in just a snap of your finger, would come running to you. Come on! You're beautiful, inside - out. A shit head like him doesn't deserve you.

Fifth - Dude, take your time accepting the fact that you guys are done - na da. But, also don't forget the fact that there's a life out there. Life is not a fantasy and break ups happen in reality. Be thankful that he's not the one for you cause if he is - I won't go to your wedding as your bridesmaid and dear Lord, have pity on your future kiddo. Do you want your kids to look like him, oh please, you're not honestly thinking of staying with him forever right? Don't be bitter about that break up, it will make you grow stronger and at least, you would do better on your next relationship. Cheer-up, true love is just around and it comes when you least expects it.

Dear, you're gonna get through this. You're strong and revenge is definitely your aura. So, what are you waiting for? Go kick the ass of that jerk -- totally kidding. 9months is a long time. It's a long time to cry for but, 9months is also a long time for you to learn. We love you and you'll get through this.